MenToo is part of Amicus’ mission to support men’s mental well-being and corporate social responsibility, balancing profit-making with actions that positively impact society, specifically families.
It is now a growing movement of men who have first answered the call sounded at the Forum on the Richness of Manhood (FoRM) – a call to remember men’s own richness, talents, and masculine genius.
Amicus and Bros Before Woes have come together to drive the efforts to build this community of men, with men, for men, in a not-for-profit manner.
This collective movement aims to exist for men who recognise that with richness comes responsibility – to themselves, their families, and society. Men gather not to compete, but to connect. Not to perform masculinity, but to live it – through strength, courage, integrity, and brotherhood.
Men become better men – with men. We bring together men from every walk of life to continue the spirit of FoRM – sharing stories, sharpening virtues, and challenging one another to grow into the best versions of themselves. We care about Men Too! #MenToo
Why this matters
Based on general patterns and research data, below are some key challenges that often affect men more acutely:
1. Stigma around vulnerability and emotional expression: cultural expectations (stoicism, provider role) can discourage men from seeking help or admitting distress.
2. Relationship strain & identity: marriage breakdown, separation, or divorce can trigger loss of identity (husband/father), social status, financial stress.
3. Sexuality concerns: performance anxiety, shame, unrealistic expectations, porn use (though research in Singapore on porn addiction / sexual dysfunction is less abundant) can affect self-esteem, intimacy.
4. Mid-life pressures: aging, health decline, caretaking roles, financial burden, changing social roles.
5. Lack of targeted support programmes: general mental health services are broad-based; fewer programmes tailored to men’s lived experience in marriages, divorce, sexuality.
Men! You are not alone; there is a community and movement now;
when you need it, help and support are available. Otherwise, offer support to
your brothers, help each other showup in the best version of yourselves.
What we do
Amicus stepped up and took the responsibility of inviting and gathering men who subscribe to the reality that “men become better men with men”, and recognise that with richness comes responsibility.
Amicus’ decades of work with men and families puts her in a unique position to support, connect and empower men from all walks of life, and all groups of men who come together for varying interests and passions. The purpose is to help and support each man live out their own unique masculine genius with strength, courage, integrity and brotherhood.
Offerings
| 1. Life Coaching | 6. Group Mentoring for Young Men | 11. Co-parenting Sessions |
| 2. Divorce Coaching | 7. Rite of Passage Bootcamps for Boys | 12. Sexual Health Counselling |
| 3. Marriage Preparation | 8. Family Sessions | 13. Divorce Bootcamp for Men |
| 4. Personal Counselling | 9. Identity Exploration | 14. Porn Dependency Intervention |
| 5. Father and Son Retreats | 10. Peer-support Groups |
Men’s Groups
We have connected and aligned with the following men’s group to support the good work they are doing for men and with men. In particular, we have partner Bros Before Woes to grow the MenToo Community for men to openly explore the goodness, challenges and even issues men face – from mental health, relationships, masculinity, to sexuality and overall well-being.
In line with Article 8 of MenToo Charter, groups reflected here are aligned and pledge continued alignment to the Charter.
MenToo will work in alliance with other like-minded men and men’s group to become a collective and united voice for men in Singapore.
MenToo mission is to bring as many men as possible and men’s group together, so that men empower and strengthen each other to make good their own lives, and that they each may thrive. We believe when men thrive, families thrive!
Not every group is meant for every man. Men may reach out to the group they identify with and connect directly. Each group of men have a unique offerings.
MenToo and or Amicus, bears no liabilities or responsibilities on what each men’s group does as each group is unique, as men are, and it is run autonomously and independently. While every care and effort is taken to understand each group, MenToo is unable to vouch for every dealing each group has.
In the spirit of the MenToo Charter, deep respect is accorded to each man and the men’s group within this community as they go about supporting and building men.
Everyone is connected via this MenToo Online Community, you may join via one of the men’s group or here. Free subscription allows for you to just be updated on activities and announcements. The premium membership (Use the limited validity code: MENTOOGO27 for lifetime free membership) allows access to offerings by Amicus and the various groups at significantly discounted rates.
We hope that as men grow, the group also grows, and more importantly, families grow. We invite each man to join not just to receive, but to also give of yourselves to each other.
May you help each other grow and support this effort wherever you can, and whenever you can. Why do we do this? Simply because we care for men too! #MenToo
Step Forward. Live Whole. Lead Well.
Every man has a story – as a son, a brother, a husband, a father, or a friend. Yet too often, men are told to stay silent, stay strong, and stay in control – even when they are struggling.
At Amicus, we believe that strength begins with honesty, healing, and purpose. Our programmes and coaching services are designed for boys, men, fathers, and grandfathers, who are ready to reclaim or act-on the richness of their masculinity – not through dominance or suppression, but through courage, integrity, empathy, and self-mastery.
Whether you are navigating a divorce, seeking deeper connection in your marriage, exploring your identity, confronting porn dependency, or simply striving to live with greater clarity and peace – we invite you to step forward.
Join the MenToo Movement or participate in any offerings by Amicus for men or by one of the men’s groups. Rediscover what it means to live whole, lead well, and become the man you were always meant to be.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the MenToo Movement?
The MenToo Movement is a collective movement of men’s groups, professionals, advocates, and community leaders in Singapore working together to support the wellbeing, dignity, mental health, and flourishing of men, fathers, families, and future generations.
What does MenToo stand for?
MenToo stands for the belief that men matter too – emotionally, mentally, socially, and within families and society. The movement advocates for men to be heard with compassion, supported with fairness, and empowered with hope.
Is MenToo only for men?
No. While MenToo focuses on men’s wellbeing and challenges, the movement supports healthier families, stronger relationships, responsible fatherhood, and better outcomes for society as a whole.
Is MenToo against women or women’s causes?
No. MenToo is not anti-women. MenToo believes supporting men and supporting women are not opposing causes. Stronger men contribute to stronger families, healthier relationships, and safer communities.
Why was MenToo created?
MenToo was created because many men silently struggle with loneliness, emotional pain, mental health difficulties, family breakdown, social isolation, and feeling unheard or unsupported.
Who started MenToo?
The MenToo Movement is spearheaded by Amicus Curiae Psychological and Coaching Services in partnership with Bros Before Woes, and supported by the Singapore government, multiple men’s groups and leaders across Singapore.
What are the goals of MenToo?
MenToo aims to:
• Advocate for men’s mental and emotional wellbeing
• Strengthen fathers’ involvement in children’s lives
• Promote healthy family relationships
• Encourage healing, accountability, and resilience
• Build safe communities where men can seek support without shame
• Champion dignity, fairness, and therapeutic justice for families
Which groups are part of the inaugural MenToo collective?
The inaugural collective includes:
• Amicus Curiae PCS
• Bros Before Woes
• Real Man Co.
• Men-Kind
• The Ordinary Dads
• The Fireside Circle
• Centre for Fathering
• Forum on Richness of Manhood
• Alpha X
…and more groups expected to join over time.
Who can join MenToo?
Any man who supports the mission and values of MenToo can join. Men’s groups, advocates, professionals, and community organisations are also welcome.
How do I join MenToo?
You can join the MenToo online community through: https://nas.com/mentoo/home
What is the online platform for?
It is a place to house all the men’s groups online, and for each group to offer the movement their unique blend of support at a cost or otherwise.
Does the men group have to pay for anything to be on the platform?
No. There is no cost to be onboarded on the platform.
How do I get onboarded on the platform?
Groups who finds alignment to the mission of MenToo as expressed in the MenToo Charter may write to the secretariat mentoo@amicuscuriaepcs.com.
Is being onboarded guaranteed?
No. In a collaborative spirit, groups are invited to engage in dialogue to develop mutual understanding and interests. Ideally, the onboarding decision should be jointly arrived. Regardless, the review committee will assess suitability and alignment to the MenToo
Charter. The Committee’s decision is final.
Is membership free?
Yes. Free membership is available for anyone who wants updates, announcements, and access to public events.
What is Premium Membership?
Premium Membership is for participating men’s groups and subscribed individuals who want deeper access to resources, programmes, collaborations, and movement benefits. Premium Membership is free for participating men’s groups until the end of 2027.
Will MenToo charge membership fees?
Premium Membership will remain free for participating men’s groups until the end of 2027. From 2028 onwards, a fee-paying structure may be introduced to support infrastructure, research, and sustainability.
What support does MenToo provide?
Through the different men’s groups’ offerings, members may access the non-exhaustive list of services, programme, activities and support:
• Nature walks
• Psychotherapy
• Divorce Coaching
• Personality Profiling
• Father-son activities
• Leadership Workshops
• Mental health and research
• Family & Youth Court Specialist Consultation Sessions
Do members have to pay anything for the support?
It depends on the groups offering those support. Groups are encouraged to charge a fee to cover their cost and to consider some margins for themselves to sustainably support men within the movement.
What is in it for me as a member of the MenToo movement?
You get the opportunities to learn more about yourself as a man, and also about other men. Hopefully you find yourself growing as a male person feeling safe and supported, having the opportunity to also extend the same to a fellow brother in-need, and being in
solidarity with other men.
Do groups have to pay anything to offer their support and services?
No, unless there is a price tagged to it. For every $100 worth of support or service paid by members for it, group only pays $10 for admin fees.
Is MenToo political?
No. MenToo is a community and social wellbeing movement focused on mental health, families, fatherhood, and societal wellbeing.
What benefit do groups enjoy?
Groups may…
▪ Enjoy the synergy, camaraderie and benefits of the collective resource and energy.
▪ Use the platform to promote themselves and value-offerings, and to be connected.
▪ Earn some income to sustain their outreach efforts and have fun at the same time.
▪ Enjoy public recognition and access to collaboration opportunities.
▪ Participate in nationwide and global research to gain insights about men.
▪ Share and acquire knowledge and skills for the growth of their own group members.
▪ Book sponsored venues for activities and events. Click here to book.
Is MenToo a therapy or counselling service?
No. MenToo is a movement of men for men. Amicus is the default provider for therapy or counselling service for men, if needed. However, MenToo is open to work with other professionals and organisations that provide mental health and support services for men.
Does MenToo support fathers?
Yes. Strengthening fathers’ involvement in the lives of their children is one of MenToo’s key commitments.
Does MenToo support men going through divorce or family difficulties?
Yes. MenToo recognises the emotional and psychological challenges men face during family breakdowns and aims to provide support, guidance, and access to professional help.
Does MenToo work with other organisations?
Yes. MenToo encourages collaboration between men’s groups, professionals, community organisations, and advocates to create collective impact.
What makes MenToo different?
MenToo brings together multiple men’s groups under a shared charter and shared mission instead of working in isolation. It focuses on collaboration, research, advocacy, and practical support for men and families.
What does “One Movement. One Brotherhood.” mean?
It reflects MenToo’s belief that men’s groups and communities become stronger when they work together with shared purpose, unity, and mutual support.
Can men’s groups partner with MenToo?
Yes. Men’s groups aligned with the MenToo Charter can become recognised partners, collaborators, advocates and champions within the movement ecosystem.
Does MenToo only focus on mental health?
No. Mental health is important, but MenToo also focuses on fatherhood, family relationships, resilience, social connection, healing, accountability, and community support.
What kind of activities will MenToo organise?
MenToo will organise in partnership with the men’s groups:
• Talks and discussions
• Mental health initiatives
• Community gatherings
• Fatherhood and family programmes
• Collaborative events between men’s groups
• Research and learning initiatives
How can I stay updated?
Join the online community and follow MenToo’s official announcements, campaigns, and partner platforms.
Is MenToo only for Singapore?
MenToo is currently based in Singapore, but its principles and mission may resonate with men and communities internationally.
How can organisations or professionals collaborate with MenToo?
Professionals, researchers, practitioners, and organisations aligned with MenToo’s values may reach out through participating groups or the movement’s official channels to explore partnerships and collaboration opportunities.
What is the MenToo Charter?
The MenToo Charter is a shared declaration of values and commitments that guides the movement’s work for men, families, and society.
What is MenToo’s message to society?
“Men Too. Men Matter. Men Together.” MenToo believes that when men are supported with dignity, compassion, accountability, and hope, families and communities become stronger for everyone.
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